Can Aromas Really Help to Reduce Our Levels of Stress?

Ask any parent who works at home, manages a busy household, or looks after children if they experience stress. Or ask any parent who struggles with work outside the home and is frustrated with having no time to manage their home and kids. Today, even the haven of our homes cannot protect us from stress. At home it comes in many forms and affects both young and old.

Almost everyone today is a victim of elevated levels of stress and anxiety. Even children, much like their parents, lead hectic and stressful lives. But did you know that certain fragrances can help alleviate some of this stress?

It’s true. We can use our noses to reduce our levels of stress.

Rather than reaching for medications to relieve stress, many people are looking for other ways to reduce their levels of stress. Scents are a great way to relax, unwind and reduce stress. Research at Yale University suggests that the smell of spiced apples may be effective in warding off a panic attack.

In a study conducted by Dr. Susan Schiffman, subjects were first trained to relax when introduced to a pleasant-smelling fragrance. Within just a few weeks, these subjects were able to relax the muscles over their forehead—the muscles which, when allowed to remain in a tense position, lead directly to a “stress headache”.

In another study conducted by Dr. Gary Schwartz subjects were asked a series of stressful questions while they were exposed to pleasant fragrances. Compared to control subjects who hadn’t been exposed to these scents, those tested with fragrances were shown to have lower blood pressures, heart rates and even breathing patterns.

Stress at Work?

Who doesn’t experience stress at work! In studies done by Dr. Joel Warm and William Dember, workers who were exposed to the occasional scent of peppermint showed a marked increase in alertness and improved job performance. The significance of this finding may have a large impact on the workplaces of the future.

Overall, studies have found that

* pleasant fragrances help to reduce workers’ levels of stress and promote a healthy mental atmosphere.

* lemon’s invigorating scent has been clinically proven to help clerical workers make fewer computer and data entry errors.

* lavender can help individuals compute equations more quickly and more efficiently.

* peppermint and lily of the valley can help individuals lengthen their attention span.

* pleasant fragrances also promote well-being in employees wherever they gather—in conference rooms, lobbies, etc.

As technology continues to advance, more and more employees will be subjected to lengthy hours in front of computers. Anyone who has experienced more than an hour at a time inputting and analysing computer data knows how difficult it may be to stay alert—especially during the late morning and early afternoon hours. Could it be that a whiff of peppermint may help us to stay awake more than our cup of coffee? Research in this area offers promising hope—especially for those of us who have an intolerance for caffeine.

Japanese companies are putting this research to task and are seeing promising results. Workers who are exposed to regular sprays of scents via computerized odour delivery systems by way of air conditioning and ventilation systems show a marked increase in efficiency and performance. To stimulate employees at the beginning of their workday, companies are odorizing their offices with shots of citrus scents. Then late in the morning, employees are stimulated by swirls of floral-scented odorants. By mid-afternoon these employees are then exposed to invigorating woodsy cypress and cedar scents.

However, employers should be warned that some pleasant-smelling fragrances can actually have a negative impact on productivity. In one study, galaxolide, a musk-smelling scent, had a doubling effect on subject response times.

Cacosmia, or “sick-building syndrome,” is a phenomenon where individuals become ill from low levels of common environmental chemical odours found in paint, building materials and even perfumes. Sufferers tend to experience daytime tiredness and are often shy and introverted. Interestingly, shy, introverted individuals have been shown to be more sensitive to smell than their more gregarious counterparts.

According to “The Smell Report, “If the ‘olfactory-survival-reflex’ theory is correct, it may be that people with high-smell sensitivity become shy and novelty-avoiding because their olfactory receptors transmit more primeval danger-signals making them feel more vulnerable.”


Luke Vorstermans is the founder of The Sense of Smell Lab, a world leader in the development of innovative products that use our sense of smell to influence behavior, trigger memories, manage cravings, enhance moods and improve sexual health. To learn more about enhancing your sex drive with Scentuelle patch go to http://www.scentuellepatch.com

Mental Relaxation and Your Mental Health

658899_lemonRelaxation is important to both physical and mental health. Mental relaxation benefits not just your mind but also your body.

Stress is part of life; it is almost impossible to avoid stress. In fact, attempting to avoid stress is enough to create stress. Stress is what you experience emotionally and internally in response to a given situation with which you are incapable of coping. However, stress, ironically enough, may also be beneficial in that it teaches you about how to handle difficult situations in life. Learning to deal with demands in life keeps your mentally healthy, just as exercise keeps you physically fit.

Stress is related to your feelings, which signal that “something is not in order.” Stress, therefore, requires expression of these emotions in an appropriate way – in the form of mental relaxation.

Mental relaxation is possible only when you have a plan for a balanced lifestyle, including regular bedtime, even on weekends and holidays. The reason is that your body’s biological clock plays an important role in regulating your sleep patterns, which are critical to your mental well-being. Plan your daily routine and pace your life.

Take full responsibility for you own stress. This is the key to managing stress in your life. Never say, “You give me stress!” Nobody gives you stress but yourself. You are responsible for your own feelings. Otherwise, you would be passing the responsibility to others – that does not work in real life.

Change your attitudes and perceptions of what you experience in your life. Events that happen to you remain the same, but your perceptions may vary. Change your attitudes and perceptions to change the way you think about your experiences. Learn to laugh at others as well as at yourself. According to studies, children laugh 40 to 50 times a day, and that is why they are happy; adults, on the other hand, laugh only 10 to 15 times at the most. Do not take life too seriously, develop and nurture a sense of humor, which is a component of mental relaxation.

Enhance your physical capabilities to cope with difficulties encountered. These capabilities include physical fitness, good nutrition, and deep sleep without sleeping aids.

Change the environment that gives you stress. If your job gives you stress, change the job or take a vacation to de-stress yourself, although this may be a passive way of dealing with your stress.

Life is full of problems. Understanding yourself and the things that trouble you most is an important step in solving your life’s problems, thereby eliminating much of the stress. Your mental health is determined by the way you work with and relate to others. In other words, you may have behavioral problems that create stress for you at work and in relationships. Isolating yourself in order to avoid these behavioral problems only makes you more difficult to enjoy good mental health.

To deal with any behavioral problem, you must learn how to communicate easily and clearly with others. You must be a good listener. You must be assertive without being critical or aggressive. You must learn to trust others, and see the good, instead of the bad, in others.

Eliminating stress is not equivalent to producing mental relaxation. To help your mind relax, you need to give it “a break.” When you are asleep, your mind remains very active and does not “rest.” When you are awake, your mind is preoccupied with mostly past and future thoughts. Nearly all your thoughts, including your desires and fears, are based on either the past or the future. Your desires are no more than recollection of the past pleasure and hope of repeating them in the future. Fears are also memories of past pain, and your desire to avoid them in the future. To give your mind the rest it rightfully deserves, help your mind focus on the present moment. Meditation does just that: it enables your mind to focus only on the present moment to the exclusion of past and future thoughts.

In meditation, you focus on your breathing, noticing your inhalation and exhalation, directing your mind to the present, thereby shutting off wandering thoughts of the past and future. In meditation, you are essentially giving your mind a period of relaxation. There is no other way as effective as meditation in giving your mind total relaxation. Modern medicine is beginning to use meditation to cure mental disorders because it works at your subconscious level. In Buddhist meditation, you experience “nirvana” only through meditation, in which you empty your mind of impure thoughts to arrive at a mental state of enlightenment.

Meditation, in conjunction with self-effort in changing attitudes and lifestyle, provides the best mental relaxation for your mental health.


Stephen Lau is a researcher, writing synopses of medical research for scientists. His publications include “NO MIRACLE CURES” a book on healing and wellness. He has also created several websites on health and healing. http://www.longevityforyou.com http://www.zenhealthylifestyle.com http://www.chinesenaturalhealing.com

Two Key Ways to Reduce Stress

1072510_angelStress can take many forms, and I have always found it best to have a multi-disciplinary approach to it. Some things always work, some work some of the time, and then lose their effectiveness so any stress reduction programme has to offer you plenty of options.

Over the years of studying and writing about stress, I have found these two particular techniques to really work for me and people I have recommended them to.

KEY TECHNIQUE ONE – Muscle Relaxant

Stress can really affect your sleep patterns and although this is great to do at any time, it particularly good to help you relax and drift off to sleep and usually takes around ten minutes.

If not in bed, then pick somewhere warm where you won’t be disturbed and put a blanket or rug on the floor. Lie on your back with your arms by your side and hands facing palm up towards the ceiling.

You are going to tense and relax all the muscles of your body in turn and put your attention to that part of the body as you do so. Follow this sequence:

  • You will tense each muscle and hold that for a slow count of five, then release it and rest for a slow count of ten, and then repeat once more. again
  • Hands, clenching and unclenching your fists
  • Arms, pull them in towards your body, but relax your hands
  • Shoulders, pull them both up towards your ears and drop them down again
  • Forehead, raise your eyebrows and wrinkle your forehead
  • Eyes, screw your eyes tightly shut and then open them wide
  • Jaw, press your back teeth hard together
  • Lips, press your lips and front teeth together
  • Face, screw up your face as hard as you can
  • Neck, first stretch up your chin so your neck is pushed back, and then pull your chin forwards onto your chest
  • Stomach, pull in your stomach muscles towards your spine
  • Buttocks, clench tightly together
  • Thighs, push your heels hard into the floor
  • Calves, extend your feet and point your toes
  • Feet, draw up your toes and clench them

As you get more familiar with this exercise, you can also imagine the tension being released from the muscles as you relax them and let them go.

KEY TECHNIQUE TWO – Peripheral vision

This exercise seems to activate the parasympathetic nervous system; the part of your nervous system that calms and slows you down. It helps your mind, body and emotions to come back into balance.

If you have ever studied Tai Chi, they talk about ‘soft focus’ of the eyes as a way of letting go of tension and withdrawing attention back into the body in order to relax it. It’s the difference between fixedly staring hard at something, and almost letting your eyes semi close so that things look softer and a little out of focus.

You do this exercise sitting comfortably in a chair.

  • Look ahead of you and find a spot on the wall that is just a little above your eye level. If you don’t have a point to focus on, if it’s a plain wall, then try putting a post it note on the wall with a cross or circle marked on it.
  • You are going to be looking at this throughout, and allow your eyes to soften so the image may seem a little blurred. You will notice that the room seems to recede and it is almost as if you are looking down a tunnel.
  • Still focusing on the same point, allow your field of vision to get bigger and start to notice more and more of what’s either side of that point.
  • Now you are also paying attention to what you can see out of the corners of your eyes on each side and then expand your senses to see if you can feel or be aware of anything behind you as well.
  • While you are doing this exercise, you may notice that your breathing has moved lower down in your chest and perhaps slowed down or become deeper and the face and jaw muscles will also start to relax.
  • When you are ready, just let your field of vision gradually refocus and return to normal

If you practice this, you will soon not need to use the point on the wall but will be able to change your peripheral vision wherever you are.

If your mind is ceaselessly giving you negative messages, this technique can block out that voice and let you gain some inner peace and tranquillity.


AnnA is an inspirational author and speaker on health, personal development and creativity. Free email newsletters and resources on her website plus details of her creative coaching, ghostwriting and her own books and archives to enjoy. http://www.catalystonline.co.uk

6 Ways to Slow Down the Adult ADD Brain

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If you have adult ADD, then you know that sometimes, slowing down is a very hard thing to do. There are so many tasks to accomplish and so little time to get them done.

So your mind goes into high speed, trying to accomplish it all and more, or worrying about the fact that it seems impossible to get it all done. As a result, you spend a lot of time stressing, and very little time enjoying life.

While slowing down is a difficult skill to build, it can be done. Here are 6 proven ways to slow down the adult ADD brain:


1. Leave Work
Set your business hours and stick to them! Although sometimes it’s necessary to work late, don’t do it unless you absolutely have to! You’ll work more efficiently during the day when the time you have to accomplish your tasks is limited. And take weekends off (or at least 2 days a week)! You deserve it.

2. Plan a Night Out with Others
Nothing is more fun than a night out with people you like. This could be coworkers, friends, family, or members of a group you belong to. Enjoy yourself.

3. Make a Weekly Commitment (Like Taking a Class or Participating in a Group)
Get an excuse to get out of the house and out of the office every week! Take a class, preferably learning something you always wanted to know how to do. Make sure you *pay* for the class in advance so you won’t be tempted to skip it!

4. Journal
Journaling forces you to stop, reflect and process. It helps you manage stress and gain clarity. Make the decision to do it every day – even if it’s just for 10 minutes! Don’t worry about grammar, spelling, punctuation, or flow because no one else ever has to see it.

5. Meditate
There are many different ways to meditate, but I prefer mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness meditation is simply the act of being in the present moment – whether you are working, walking, or doing the dishes! Try to keep your mind in the moment, and don’t follow stressful or worrisome thoughts when they arise. It’s okay to begin slowly by doing 5 minutes of mindful meditation a day, and then building on your practice as you become more comfortable.

6. Turn off Your Computer 2 Hours Before Bed
Computers are quite stimulating, especially for ADDers. Oftentimes, you’ll find yourself sitting at your computer at 3 o’clock in the morning totally engrossed in researching something completely random. You just can’t step away from it to go to sleep, and that’s because the computer wakes up your brain. Turn the computer off two hours before bed in order to properly wind down, and slow down, at night.

Copyright © 2009 Jennifer Koretsky


Jennifer Koretsky is the Founder and Chief Visionary Officer of the ADD Management Group, LLC. Jennifer and her team work with ADD adults who are overwhelmed with everyday life in order to help them simplify, focus, and succeed. For free resources and more information, visit http://www.ADDmanagement.com .

Do You Want to Know If Your Body Is Running in Survival Mode?

1136140_sunflowerIs your body working at its top possible level or is it in survival mode?

Fact is: If your body is acid it is in survival mode.

But, what is acidity? It is measured with PH. PH 7 is neutral, 1 very acid and 14 very alkaline.

Ideal PH levels of body fluids:

· blood is ideally at PH 7.365 · urine and saliva around PH7.0

How can you test your body? We have a health check available to you just send an email to the address below. And ask for the PH health check.

Obviously blood is the most difficult check to do, but urine and saliva are quite easy. In health shops you can get strips to test them.

What makes acid? (list incomplete)

· Feelings: stress, unforgiveness, hatred, jealousy, sadness, feeling overwhelmed

· Nutrition: any fast food, meat, sugar, wheat flour products, processed food, canned food (most food besides vegetables and some fruit)

· Drinks: coca cola, any soft drinks, beer, wine, coffee (lack of enough water)

· Lack of exercise: less blood circulation, reduced sweating, reduced function of lymphatic system which cleans the blood.

·Lack of Breathing: superficial breathing results in the lack of reducing toxic through the lung instead of energising the body with oxygen.

· Environmental toxicity: air, water etc pollution

What happens in an acid body?

·When the body is one unit down from PH 7 to PH 6, this means a 10x increase in the concentration of acidity.

·When the urine PH7 is lower than 6, the blood gets thicker and clotting of the blood might occur which might lead to thrombosis, strokes, embolies.

·The immune system is weak so acidic people are are more prone to getting the flu, feeling a lack of energy, and often having allergies, Cancer can develop in an acidic body (but it cannot survive in an alkaline body).

·High cholesterol is directly related to acidity and is an other survival strategy, (protecting the vessels from burning).

·Red blood cells are weak, have a shorter live span and can absorb less oxygen (which makes tired and hindering top performance).

Important! Inner organs can loose up to 70% of organ function without obvious symptoms. People might just feel less energetic, more tired and worn out. This is because the immune system is weak and they get sick more often, taking longer to recover…

How does the body deal with this, as this is the “western” life style? To keep the blood close to the ideal PH level is a matter of life or death.

So, what are some of the body’s Survival strategies?

·To neutralise acidity minerals are needed! So calcium is taken out of bones, magnesium and potassium out of muscles. Which leads in the longer term to fluffy and weak muscles, muscle cramps and osteoporosis.

·Then the acidity gets stored in fat (very lean bodies have other strategies which are not healthier). More fat = more storage for acidity another survival strategy

.Do you see why loosing weight is such a struggle? Obviously it is more important for your body to survive then to loose weight.

·High cholesterol protects the vessels from acidity (protecting the vessels from burning)

·A body in survival mode will automatically lower your motivation, and hinder exercise. For your body it is more important to survive than, to perform on a higher level.

So, lacking energy is a the conclusion of all factors mentioned above.

The tricky thing is, that this process goes slowly and many people misunderstand the symptoms.

One of the lies generally accepted by our society is that this process is just “normal aging” such as:

- Feeling more tired with getting older

- Have more aces and pains

- Gradually gain some weight (not muscles)

- Get fluffy and weak muscles

- Loose height (osteoporosis)

- Have less energy

- Lack brain capacity

All this is NOT what our body is built for!!!

The good news is we are built to become fit and healthy even when we’re 120 years old!

But, it is like with a car or a house – if we look after our body well it will look after us much longer.

Action for today:

-What is your reality? How well do you feel in your body? Your body it the only vehicle you have your whole life.

- How do you deal with your feelings? Suppressed feelings increase acidity.

- How many litre (filtered) good water do you drink a day? (ideal1 litre per 20kg body weight) · How many green vegetables do you eat?


Next news letter: how to increase your life energy, get alkaline fit and healthy. Subscribe at: http://www.success-coaching.org/self-motivation.html How can you test your body? We have a health check available to you just send an email Ursula@energetic-life-solutions.com And ask for the PH health check

Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) at Work

613768_playing_with_fireLife at work can be difficult for many people with adult Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD). You may find yourself feeling chronically disorganized and stressed out at the office. Here are 5 quick tips for managing your ADD challenges at work:

1. Manage your stress both in and out of work. Many of you know what I always say about stress: Stress Management = ADD Management! The more stressed out you are, the harder it is to be on time, stay organized, focus, and get along well with others. Real Life Example: One client I work with locks herself in the ladies room and meditates when things get stressful at work.

2. Clearly separate your personal and professional time. When you mix your personal and professional lives, you open yourself up to more stress, and a lack of focus results. Stay in the present moment. Focus on personal matters at home, and leave professional matters at the office. Real Life Example: A former client instructs his wife, kids, and friends NOT to email him at work. Instead, he directs them to his personal email account, which he only checks at home.

3. Take a lunch (or other break.) While it’s tempting to work through lunch when the pressure is on, this isn’t always the best choice for an adult with ADD. Because we have a low tolerance for frustration, we need to relax and recharge periodically during the day in order to function optimally. Real Life Example: When I worked in a corporate office, I took advantage of my employer-sponsored gym membership and worked out during my lunch hour. This helped me burn off stress, and increased my energy for the afternoon. Now that I work from home, I take my dogs for a long walk during my lunch break. (Yes, I’m talking about little Rascal and Trixie, who are now TV stars in their own right, thanks to The TODAY Show!)


4. Work with your natural energy flow. Pay attention to how you feel during the day, and you will soon discover that there are certain times in your day when you consistently feel alert, energized, and focused. Take advantage of these times! Use them to work on projects that require more brainpower or sustained focus. Real Life Example: One client avoids scheduling meetings for 60 minutes after she eats lunch. For about one hour after eating, she feels tired and has a hard time concentrating. Rather than struggling to pay attention during these times, she does her best to avoid placing herself into a difficult situation.

5. Take 15 minutes every day to plan your time and to-dos. The key to time management (and project management) is planning in advance. To-do lists are essential, because they help you keep track of what’s going on. Scheduling your day helps you feel more in control of your time, and helps you set realistic expectations for what you can accomplish. Real Life Example: I recommend that EVERY adult with ADD take 15 minutes a day–every day– to review your to-do list and plan your day in advance. I do it, too! How do you manage your ADD on the job?


Copyright © 2009 Jennifer Koretsky; Jennifer Koretsky is the Founder of the ADD Management Group, LLC, author of Odd One Out: The Maverick’s Guide to Adult ADD, and Co-Founder of the Virtual AD/HD Conference. Jennifer and her team work with ADD adults who are overwhelmed with everyday life in order to help them simplify, focus, and succeed. To learn more, visit http://www.ADDmanagement.com .

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