5 Easy and Healthy Techniques to Deal With Your Stress

By Drali Zeni

619571_grass_from_stockholm_11Stress is a normal body response in facing various needs or responsibilities of one’s life. The needs or responsibilities could be issues which come from the outside of a person (for example: a letter from a falling behind bank loan, friends, job, or relationship problem), or may also comes from one’s own self thinking (for example: how a person review or judge himself or herself). Stress is often labels as a bad thing. However, every person need some pressure indeed so that they can achieve a better life.

Healthy techniques to handle stress, among others are:

1. Taking a Catnap: A catnap for about 30 to 45 minutes should refresh the body back. A nap also can replenish your health and repair any damage in your body. Notable peoples who have benefit from day sleep or nap to deal with stress are John F Kennedy, Thomas Alva Edison and Salvador Dali.

2. Massaging: You can visit a professional massager or expert or ask your own couple or a friend to massage your neck and shoulder. By massaging you are not only relieving the tense muscles, but also improving your relationship or bond with your couple and friends.

3. Artistic Self Expression: Try to be creative and divert your energy positively. You can try to learn acting, or play musical instruments, photography, drawing, poetry or singing. Music is a very good stress defusing medium. Playing musical instrument or just listening to music alone has proven to be very helpful in relieving stress.

4. To Laugh Often: This technique is not a secret anymore. Your laugh can make the stress that you face to become lighter. This also makes you to always show people a pleasant expression on your face. People will like you, you will feel your burdens lighter. A pleasant expression also attracts more helping hands.

5. Be Soft to Yourself: Whether you realized it or not, in fact we are continuously talking to our self. Talking to our own self reflects self behavior and self image. You can change both of the things through positive talking to your own self. Better, the talking itself can generate changes in the chemical processes of the body which is beneficial, in a way by activating the nervous system that raises relaxation. On the other hand, negative self talking in oneself would result stimulation on sympathetic nervous system and creating a feel of body tiredness.

So handle and overcome your stress. Live happily and healthily.

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Natural Cancer Treatment: Meditation

By Harriet Denz Penhey

Major religious traditions have known for millennia that meditation can improve health. While some medical practitioners are still skeptical about its usefulness this is largely because they are not aware of the amount of evidence there is in the medical literature. Meditation not only changes the electrical activity of the brain but impacts on both the hormonal cascades and the immune system.

When I first started as a researcher I was told in no uncertain terms that there was no evidence that stress contributed to ill health. Now it is known that stress suppresses the immune system through multiple processes including encouraging the white blood cells to die off. They call this stress induced “apoptosis of lymphocytes and development of immune supression by means of glucocorticoid pathways”. Please bear with me and put up with some big words. I have found that most doctors and many ordinary people won’t believe it is effective without these convoluted expressions.

Researchers have also been able to show how meditation can increase the relaxation response and undo many negative effects of stress. It always makes me smile when a statement such as this is blithely disregarded by my medical colleagues. However, if I quote from a paper and say how stress activates the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis, or that “cortisol is also a powerful immunosuppressant and this may undermine the capacity of NK (natural killer) and cytotoxic T-cells to eradicate tumor cells” then I can have a more productive conversation with them.

In addition to these biological effects meditation has been shown in research to reduce negative moods of depression, anxiety, anger, irritability and confusion in patients with cancer.

Most people feel much better after becoming regular meditators. They come to a greater sense of peace about their situation and their lives, have a greater sense of trust in the world, and improved coping capabilities. And each of these emotions not only make you feel better, but they have a positive flow on effect to your hormones and immune system.

One of the issues surrounding self care in cancer is the hope and expectation that some special pill, potion or magic herb, or in this case, meditation might be the cancer equivalent of antibiotic use in tonsillitis. Unfortunately there are no promises for recovery from cancer – not even from medicine and chemotherapy. Chemotherapy contributes an average to only just over 2% to the 5-year survival rate. This means that many survivors are recovering as a result of their own innate immunity.

Therefore anything that might increase one’s innate immunity and anything that can upregulate the cancer fighting cells should be considered. The wonderful aspect of natural cancer treatment is that there are no bad negative side effects.

Meditation is just one of these upregulators of the immune system. Meditation need not cost any money. It can be undertaken in a great many environments without additional resources and in my opinion it should be in the front line of any self care. Look out for other upregulators of the immune system, such as good social support, enough Vitamin D3, bright colored fruits and vegetables and exercise. With cancer, and indeed with any chronic or terminal illness you need every possible assistance to improve your chances of improved short and long term outcomes.

Dr Harriet Denz-Penhey is an internationally recognized health researcher who has done groundbreaking research into patient self care in serious illness. The web site http://www.cancerremedies.org discusses aspects of natural cancer treatment and remedies for good general health.

Forced Career Change? – Why This Could Be The Most Fantastic Thing That Has Ever Happened To You!

By Roy Carter

Although this may be a time of great stress and worry for you, you may end up feeling that being forced to make a complete career change is not actually the end of the world!

Taking the right steps immediately to find the career or job options open to you may propel you into a completely different and more fulfilling lifestyle.

In fact, for many people, after the initial shock of being told that their position is redundant, it can be a time of re-evaluation and a time for considering the options for the future.

You probably feel a little overwhelmed by it all, a little panicky and even put out and angry but you should remember that it is your ‘position’ that has been made redundant, ‘not you’! That may seem like semantics, but it is an important distinction to make. People often report an initial feeling of worthlessness and a general feeling of not being wanted. It is not at all unusual or unnatural to feel this way, but your employer has in fact found it necessary to cut certain positions in order to make the company more cost effective.

Therefore, this is not in any way a slight on your ability and should not be considered as such. In fact, such thoughts can be mentally and emotionally destructive and can hinder your chances of moving ahead, so do not allow them to control your actions. Nor should you waste time and energy feeling aggrieved at your former employer. That is simply a waste of your time and you need to be focussing your energies on you, your family and your future right now, not on the past. After all, your future is something you can influence, your past is not.

The point is, whilst your job/position may be redundant, you most certainly are NOT! In fact for many people all over the world redundancy has brought the chance of a completely new start, often taking their lives into exciting new directions! Although you may be worried about the future and will probably be feeling a little down and depressed, now is not the time to let those emotions get the better of you. Remaining positive will be an important factor in your ability to take control of the situation and move forward.

Don’t allow that ‘little voice in your head’ to give you a negative mindset.

A career change can be just the boost you long for. Click the links below for sound advice on career change ideas , writing a compelling C.V. and Resumes together with advice for Career Change 50 . ‘You never get a second chance to create a first impression’.

The Journey to Becoming Yourself

By Jan Engels Smith

In a world full of stress, deadlines, needs, and scarcity, it is sometimes hard to determine that you have any power. Helping yourself can feel like an overwhelming and unattainable mission. However, we also live in a world full of new information and understandings. Ideas of self-empowerment and the feelings that these truths bring is testimony for a new way of thinking.

The universe is unlimited, and, if you choose to explore it, you will awaken to a whole new way of knowing—a whole new way of being. Spirit is available to all people at equal levels; there is no “better than,” or “more deserving.” The choice to raise your consciousness means to broaden your awareness, open up to new possibilities, step out of your comfort zone, and allow information other than what you already “know.”

Spirit has many names: God, Great Spirit, All That Is, Mother/Father, Great Mystery, Allah, and Lord. All are interchangeable. Your spirit, which is housed in your body, is part of that giant whole. In fact, everything is made up of the same energy. All things—every tree, rock, grain of sand, gust of wind, drop of water, animal, insect, bird, planet, star—are expressions of the divine, and we are all interconnected in a divine and profound way.

You are an incredible spirit of divine perfection, the same composition as Spirit. Creator is an ocean and you are a drop of water in that ocean. You carry within you the exact components and properties of the entire ocean. You are made of Spirit, in the reflection of Spirit, and Spirit is in you. Continue reading

Natural Health: Can We Really Reduce Our Chances of Cancer by Good Self Care?

By Harriet Denz Penhey

 

Dr Harriet Denz-Penhey is an internationally recognized health researcher who has done groundbreaking research into patient self care in serious illness.

There is some really important research coming out in the biomedical journals that few people ever make the time and effort to read. This is a pity because it has a direct impact on how doctors should support you and treat you when you get sick.

You have to remember that doctors are very busy and have to make a living like any other single person or family out there in the community. Doctor’s aren’t paid for staying up to date with the medical literature and there are literally thousands of medically related articles being published each month. No self-respecting doctor could ever keep up. They have to rely on others to feed them with what is important. Most of the research feeders are the drug companies and they don’t pass on other important research which doesn’t improve their profits.

This new research includes a new understanding at what is happening at a molecular level in the cells of your body in the two areas of oxidation and inflammation.

Most people interested in health will have heard of antioxidants and how they help deal with the oxidized products from your cells. These can bounce around in the system and damage cell walls and DNA. However oxidation is needed. If your food wasn’t oxidized then all the cells would die of starvation and so would you! So oxidation is necessary and wonderful – we just need to manage the products well. This is why antioxidants like Vitamin’s A, C & E are needed.

The new finding I want to bring to your attention is that a large amount of damage done by inflammation. Again inflammation has a good purpose – it is the second very important way that the body deals with infections, poisons and trauma (the first being those white cells which engulf antigens without the need for inflammation). Inflammation is when you body reacts by swelling (providing blood and the immune system to deal with the problem), redness and pain. We need the inflammatory process.

However inflammation, like oxidation has some downsides to it that need to be managed. In most cases in our lives the inflammation leads to good outcomes, to healing. The paper cut on our finger self-heals, the influenza virus is defeated after a week or three, the acne spot clears up.

But when inflammation is overwhelming or has too many components to it other pathways can occur leading to chronic diseases like arthritis, to heart disease and to cancers.

Cancer starts as cells are transformed as DNA is changed (transformation). The transformed cells are left alive and are not killed by the immune system (survival). The new cancer cells can then reproduce and eventually invade other tissues, some far from the original site (proliferation, invasion, angiogenesis, metastasis). The growths can become so strong they are resistant to chemo and radiotherapy (chemoresistance, radioresistance).

All of these pathways are known in the biomedical literature.

So what can we do to avoid the inflammation that causes this to happen? Well, frankly the biomedical journals are, for the most part, very hard to understand unless you are trained in that area but they do have some lovely gems of information in amongst the obscurities of their research.

Dr Aggarwal at the University of Texas says in one of his journal articles that inflammation is activated in response to tobacco, stress, some foods, obesity, alcohol under some circumstances, infections such as viruses and bacteria, radiation and other environmental stimuli – and I think by this he means poisons. He says that these agents account for as much as 95% of cancers.

Think about it – if those components cover some 95% of the cancers then we should be able to intervene to reduce the likelihood of the cancer occurring.

Sorry we can’t promise that we can totally stop cancer. It is rather more complex than that. However we have lots of pointers as to the bases we have to cover and the more bases we cover the less likely that the big nasty diseases creep through.

So to improve our chances of good health we need to eat nature’s natural immune enhancing foods such as the red cabbage and broccoli, onion and garlic, blueberries and other fresh vegetables and fruit. We need some of these at least a couple of times a day. We need to manage our lifestyle issues that cause stress through improved self and work management, exercise and learning good relaxation techniques. It also helps to avoid taking in poisons wherever possible. Stop smoking and avoid second hand smoke and vehicle pollution.

What it really comes down to is that we have to make a decision to take charge of our own lives and make as many little improvements as possible. Little bit by little bit they add up. And along the way we are improving our quality of life and health not just for now but for the long term as well.

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Facing The Fear And Anxiety Of The Unknown

By Stanley Popovich

Almost everybody worries about what will happen in the future. The prospect of not knowing if something good or bad will happen to you in the near future can produce a lot of fear and anxiety. As a result, here is a list of techniques and suggestions on how to manage this fear of dealing with the unknown.

Remember that no one can predict the future with one hundred percent certainty. Even if the thing that you feared does happen there are circumstances and factors that you can’t predict which can be used to your advantage. For instance, let’s say at your place of work that you miss the deadline for a project you have been working on for the last few months. Everything you feared is coming true. Suddenly, your boss comes to your office and tells you that the deadline is extended and that he forgot to tell you the day before. This unknown factor changes everything. Remember: we may be ninety-nine percent correct in predicting the future, but all it takes is for that one percent to make a world of difference.

Learn to take it one day at a time. Instead of worrying about how you will get through the rest of the week or coming month, try to focus on today. Each day can provide us with different opportunities to learn new things and that includes learning how to deal with your problems. When the time comes, hopefully you will have learned the skills to deal with your situation.

Sometimes, we can get anxious over a task that we will have to perform in the near future. When this happens, visualize yourself doing the task in your mind. For instance, you and your team have to play in the championship volleyball game in front of a large group of people in the next few days. Before the big day comes, imagine yourself playing the game in your mind. Imagine that you’re playing in front of a large audience. By playing the game in your mind, you will be better prepared to perform for real when the time comes. Self-Visualization is a great way to reduce the fear and stress of a coming situation and increase your self-confidence.

Remember take a deep breathe and try to find something to do to get your mind off of your anxieties and stresses. A person could take a walk, listen to some music, read the newspaper, watch TV, play on the computer or do an activity that will give them a fresh perspective on things. This will distract you from your current worries.


A lot of times, our worrying can make the problem even worse. All the worrying in the world will not change anything. All you can do is to do your best each day, hope for the best, and when something does happen, take it in stride. If you still have trouble managing your anxiety of the future, then talking to a counselor or clergyman can be of great help.

There are ways to help manage your fear and all it takes is some effort to find those answers.

Stan Popovich is the author of “A Layman’s Guide to Managing Fear Using Psychology, Christianity and Non Resistant Methods” – an easy to read book that presents a general overview of techniques that are effective in managing persistent fears and anxieties. For additional information go to: http://www.managingfear.com/

One Way to Overcome Stress

By Emma Wortt

“If you’re going through hell, keep going.” Winston Churchill.

You have a problem. In order to solve it you’re going to need to make some changes. The thought of that is making you stressed, but the thought of leaving things as they are is even more stressful.

You want to make changes but you know that there are risks involved in doing so. Perhaps you’re thinking there’s someone who won’t approve or someone who may be upset. Maybe you’re wondering where you will find the time to make those much needed changes or you are telling yourself it’s not possible to improve the situation. Whatever you perceive as the risks involved in moving forward is making you anxious, and that is holding you back.

The first step in overcoming your challenge is to work out exactly what outcome you want.

Ask yourself:

In an ideal world how specifically do I want this situation to operate in the future?

The word ‘specifically’ is important here. Decide when you want the situation to have changed and then imagine yourself at that point in the future. Allow yourself to become immersed for a moment in that vision of the resolved issue. Write down now in detail and with clarity what will happen and what you will see, hear and feel when you have resolved this challenge.


The next step is to see this challenge in terms of who you are as a person.

Ask yourself:

Taking into consideration my personal and professional values; my work ethics; my peace of mind; my goals; – am I willing to continue to tolerate this situation as it is now?

Now ask:

What are the risks involved? What specifically am I anxious about? What is stopping me from sorting this out? Make a list.

Now one last question:

Is the outcome I want worth the risks involved in attaining it? If your answer is a resounding ‘Yes!’ then you can now start to work out your action plan to reach the goal.

Stress itself is not the problem. If you want growth and you want change then decide to tolerate the anxiety that will be inherent in it. As long as you continue to balance the risks involved against your desired outcome and who you are as a person your anxiety will begin to dissipate. Then instead of holding yourself back you will empower yourself to move forward.

© Emma Wortt of Em-powering Executives, 2008. All Rights Reserved.
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Stress Can Rob Us of Vitamins and Nutrients Needed for Good Health

By John Bradstreet

Stress is the body’s way of responding to any demand put on it. The body reacts to stress by producing chemicals that find their way into the blood steam. This gives people more energy and strength. This can actually be a good thing if the stress is caused by danger. It gives us the ability to react to that danger quickly. Stress can also have negative effects if it is caused by something emotional such as family problems, overwork or financial issues. It becomes a problem when there is no outlet for this increased energy and strength. This is the type of stress that causes so many problems to our medical and physical heath.

Identifying what is causing our stress is the first step to dealing effectively with it. There are several common types of stress which can be identified. The two main areas are physical and emotional. Let’s look at some of the more common types of stress:

* Survival Stress – This happens when you are physically threatened. It goes to the “fight” or “flight” reaction to that danger that is common in all animals and people. The body responds with a burst of extra energy which allows you to react to that danger. This manifests itself as fighting to survive or removing yourself from the danger.

* Internal Stress – Have you ever found yourself worrying over something that you have little or no control over? Or maybe you find yourself worrying over nothing at all. This type of stress is the hardest to understand and control. Some people may even put themselves in stressful situations or actually become addicted to a lifestyle which is so frantic and hectic that is it a continuous source of stress.

* Environmental Stress – This is the type of stress that occurs from factors around you. This may be from family members or people that we work and come in contact with, from being in a noisy situation or an overcrowded room. Leaning to avoid these situations will do a lot to reduce stress levels.

* Fatigue and Overwork – Stress caused by these two factors is the type that can build up over time and have a negative effect on our health. Maybe you work to many hours or to hard, maybe you don’t always know how to manage your time effectively or just don’t take the time you need for rest or vacation. People tend to believe that these are things that are out of their control and make it the hardest form of stress to control.


When you are under stress there are many stress related hormones that your body releases. Being under stress occasionally is not a problem, but if the situation persists these hormones can rob us of nutrients that are essential to our bodies. One of the problems with prolonged stress and the hormones associated with it can be a depletion of zinc, potassium and B-complex vitamins. Stress hormones being secreted over long periods of time can also interfere with insulin functioning and promote insulin resistance. These increased hormone levels can also change our blood sugar levels opening us up to a variety of medical problems brought on by the fact that our cells are not able to nourish themselves by the glucose in our diets.

If you are prone to long periods of stress or have a history of depression there are certain things you can do to get the nutrients in your body back to optimal levels. Nutrients that become depleted by stress include foliate, vitamin B6, vitamin B12, choline, protein and omega-3 fatty acids. Being aware of this, one may want to adjust their diets or supplement for these nutrients. A common situation associated with stress is called “leaky gut”. This is associated with increased permeability of the intestinal wall. It compromises nutrient absorption in the digestive tract, and the intestinal walls can no longer regulate the movement of nutrients in and out of the digestive tract.

Stress is something that we need to find a way to control before it starts to negatively affect the quality of life and our heath in general. Being aware of the reasons why stress has such a negative effect on our health is a good start. Adjusting diet or using supplementation to allow our body to make up for the nutrients being lost will counteract some of these negative effects. A change in lifestyle or attitude can relieve the problem going forward.

John Bradstreet is an experienced Biochemist with extensive knowledge in nutritional supplementation. He has more than 25 years of increasing responsibility in his field. To learn more about the depletion of nutrients due to stress we have included additional links at the bottom of the page to help educate you on the subject. Or you can subscribe to our Vitamin and Supplement blog where you will find information on many topics concerning natural supplementation.

How To Overcome Time Stress

Time stress is a major stress factor in everyday life. We need to meet deadlines in almost every aspect of our lives: from completing certain tasks in our work, catching a bus, to cooking our dinner. In contemporary living, in spite of the advancement of modern technology, we find ourselves having too much to cram into the twenty-four hours of a day.

Time stress is a major stress factor, detrimental to both physical and mental health. How can one overcome time stress?

The solution is surprisingly quite simple: deliberate non-doing. Yes, you simply do nothing. It is just that simple!

Do not let the constrains of your life mold your time. To be able to do this, you need to change your perceptions of time.

Time is all in your mind – a result of your own thinking. Everybody has only twenty-four hours a day. Come to think of it, time is an equalizer of men. Do you really have more work that needs to be done than everyone else? Do you need to be a “thief of time” by sleeping much less than others so that you have more time than others to do what needs to be done?

Deliberate non-doing gives you a sense of inner calmness that enables you to re-consider the importance of doing only what is most important, to see in perspective what is most important in your life. Only when you start doing what is the most important to you, then you will begin to have enough time for everything. This may sound stranger than fiction, but this is the truth to overcome time stress.

This evening, when you get home, you may feel you are overwhelmed and pressed for time, such as there is a TV program that you want to watch, a dinner you need to cook for your family, some laundry you need to do, some phone calls you need to make, or your kids’ homework you need to attend to.

At that very moment, when you think you are going to go crazy, stop short of doing anything – that is, do nothing! Be mindful of only that present moment. Live in the present moment. Sit down and meditate for fifteen to twenty minutes: you just sidestep the flow of time. If you don’t know meditation techniques, just close your eyes, and pay attention to your breathing; if thoughts come to your mind, do not deliberately dismiss them, but just continue to concentrate on your breathing.

After the meditation, you may have a totally different perspective of you needs and wants in life. If you have missed the TV show, so what? If you haven’t made those phone calls, that is not the end of the world. If you haven’t helped your kids with their homework, it doesn’t mean they would never go to Harvard. What is most important to you is your inner calm, which is the absence of time stress. Maybe you have just avoided a heart attack due to time stress.

Remember, time stress occurs when you are spread too thin. So, prioritize and simplify your life. The first step to achieve this is deliberate non-doing amidst the hustle and bustle of life.
 


For more information on stress, go to Stephen Lau’s web page:Anger and Stress Management. Stephen Lau is a writer and researcher with books and websites on health, Chinese healing, eating disorders, golf, and money matters. Visit his most recent website: Are You Healthy?