Public Speaking: 8 Simple Tips to Put Humor Into Your Speech

By Edward Hope

1099095_smiling_pakistani_girlA speech can be interesting, informative and highly entertaining without being humorous. Most speakers are invited because they are well informed on a specific subject and it is of interest to the audience, the listeners do not necessarily expect to be entertained. For entertainment they would hire an entertainer. However, humor has a number of great benefits in helping the speaker to be more effective in achieving the overall purpose of their speech.

The advantages of using humor in your speech are: -
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How to Use Conversation to Improve Your Public Speaking

By Edward Hope

653181_coffee_shop_kenson_2Today, effective public speaking is about successfully communicating ideas and information that is worthwhile to the audience. It is no longer a fine art that only a few can aspire to. This means it is now easier for the ordinary individual to become an effective public speaker.

With effective public speaking being about the ideas being conveyed rather than fancy words and phrases, a conversational tone is considered in the majority of situations to be the most effective way to get a message across. An audience wants interesting content that they can use and do not expect fine oratory.

Public speaking has much in common with great conversation. Consider the situation where two people are in discussion. One person is talking and the other is listening. People are attracted to the conversation and soon the individual is in effect delivering a speech. All the person talking need do is raise their voice so all can hear and continue to speak in a conversational tone which is the most effective way.

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Public Speaking – How to Improve Your Delivery Style For More Effective Speaking

1143820_prtty_thingPublic speaking is communication in action. It is an audio and visual experience for the audience. Of course, the main means of conveying the message is by voice and it needs to be expressive to maintain the audience’s interest. But also required is good visual appeal of the speaker to give the message real meaning and context, and to keep the audience’s attention. No-one really enjoys a robotic type delivery where the speaker stays rooted to the spot with a deadpan expression.

The content of the speech is of prime importance and should be prepared properly. However, a good stage performance will enhances the speaking experience and helps the audience form a favourable opinion about the speaker and the speech.

Getting Started

When it is your time to speak walk purposefully to the spot you are to speak from. Stand firmly on both feet slightly apart with your weight evenly distributed. Stand up straight and tall. Pause and take a few breaths. Smile naturally at the audience. These actions will convey confidence to the audience and they will be confident in your ability to deliver.

Appearance

A speaker should avoid anything about their dress that would draw undue attention away from their speech. Clothing should fit well and be of good quality. However, it does not have to be expensive. The speaker’s appearance should be neat and tidy, and be appropriate for the occasion.

Gestures

The effective speaker is like a boxer ready to move as required not like a soldier at attention in the parade ground. For a gesture to be effective it should be both positively and confidently made. The whole body should work as one. Effective gestures correspond with the speech, e.g. if the speaker says “It was up there” they will point up not down.

Fidgeting or “doodling” – scratching your head, removing and replacing glasses etc – are to be avoided. These gestures distract the audience and can convey nervousness to them.

There is no cardinal rule on the way to make a gesture except they need to appear natural and be seen. But up and out is a useful way to think about gestures. They can be readily seen by the audience, and are usually more positive and dynamic.

Movement

An interesting speaker will move around as he speaks. Not constantly, but as it comes naturally to emphasize make a point. The movement should have meaning and purpose. Random wandering movement can convey you are nervous, bored or otherwise pre-occupied. And it will distract the audience.

Eye Contact

The eyes are an important in conveying the speaker’s thoughts and feelings to the audience. While speaking the speaker should be looking at someone and be giving all parts of the audience about the same attention.

Many speakers avoid looking at the audience because of what they imagine they may see on the audience’s faces – boredom, disgust and the like. However, if you have difficulty doing this, it is worth forcing yourself to look at the audience. It is the best way to establish a connection with them. And you will soon realise that there is no reason not to.

The most important factor in good stage performance is to be interested and enthusiastic about your topic. Movement and gestures will come naturally as the speaker sincerely and earnestly delivers their speech.

A speaker who does not more or gesture etc, lacks visual appeal and the audience will lose interest, this is like a boxer with one arm tied behind this back. To begin with you may have to force yourself to move and gesture to say it with style. Encourage the action until the style becomes natural and expressive and you will become a more persuasive and effective speaker.


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Public Speaking: Practical Tips to Get Started and Develop Self Confidence

1182945_leaf_textureThe rewards of being a confident speaker are great. You will be recognised as being of leader material. You can achieve more through 5 minutes of effective speaking than 5 years of grind. A few well chosen words on the subject under discussion will receive favourable attention and command respect.

Getting started in any field of endeavour is often the most difficult part. The tips given here outline an approach to getting started in public speaking that have proved successful in developing self confidence in speaking either in public or in conversation.

Your First Appearance

Your first appearance in public need only brief. No more than a few words is all that is required, e.g. stating your name and occupation. If you are tempted to fidget or wring your hands, clasp your hands behind your back.

You can still be a hit with your audience by acknowledging the fact that you are new to public speaking. Just avoid using the clichéd “unaccustomed as I am to public speaking.” Instead say something like “This is my first appearance before an audience and I am very nervous. My name is …… and my business is ………, and some day I hope to tell you more. Then sit down.

Practice Fields

To find somewhere to practice will require a little initiative. When practicing swimming you will need to find a swimming pool and when practicing public speaking you need to find a meeting. Fortunately there are thousands of meetings held every day that will give an ambitious speaker ample opportunity to be heard. Also there are two organisations that are great places to help you to become more confident speaker. They are Toastmasters International and the Dale Carnegie Institute.

Persistence

A little and often is the key to building confidence and improving your performance. A brief speech delivered often is more effective than a longer speech given infrequently. More than any other human activity confident speaking is learned by doing and improved by practice.

Preparation

Thorough preparation is of key importance. Self confidence will develop as a result of full preparation for your speech. With a full understanding of your topic you will radiate confidence.

Overcoming Stage Fright

Unfortunately there is no silver bullet to over the normal human anxiety of nervousness before speaking. There are techniques that can help with this such as – positive mental attitude, visualising success and deep breathing etc. In the end it comes down to exercising a little courage to make the decision to start and then stepping out and doing it. Your first appearance will open a bud of confidence that with proper care and attention, you can flower into being an effective confident speaker.

It is worth noting when making your initial appearances in public – that a part time speaker that knowing their subject fully and having something worthwhile to communicate can outshine the seasoned professional from the audience’s viewpoint.

It is normal for people to be anxious before they speak. By persevering, practicing and preparing thoroughly the huge rewards of public speaking can gained, especially self confidence and recognition.


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Public Speaking – The Power of Enthusiasm

1147218_spiky_palm_tree_leavesEnthusiasm is a necessary qualification for effective speaking. When you show enthusiasm it is contagious. The enjoyment and knowledge that is demonstrated for your subject will result in increased listener enjoyment and your speech being more convincing.

For public speaking, the enthusiasm required, as described by Coleman Cox, “is inspired by reason, controlled by caution, sound in theory, and practical in application, reflects confidence, spreads good cheer, raises morale, inspires associates, arouses loyalty and laughs at adversity.”

Enthusiasm in public speaking is about being passionate about the subject of your speech and being able to convey it to others. The enthusiasm must be demonstrated in your tome of voice, body language, gestures and facial expressions to transfer it to your audience. The feeling of excitement must come through as you deliver.

Some people are naturally enthusiastic and they are that way because they have developed the necessary habits. You must want to be enthusiastic to become enthusiastic.

Frank Bettger author of “How I Raised Myself from Failure to Success in Selling” attributes his success to enthusiasm. His advice is “act enthusiastically and you’ll be enthusiastic.” By acting on his own advice he put his “heart” into selling and went from failure to the top of his field for several years.


If you are not naturally enthusiastic, it can be created as a result of your attitude and enjoyment of the topic or by believing in a cause. By taking the time to apply the following it is possible to develop enthusiasm:

1. Choosing a positive optimistic nature and attitude

2. By putting your whole heart and soul into every you do

3. Do not let criticism put you off your stride

4. Develop a burning desire in your subject by thinking about it and living it everyday.

5. Have an active interest in people

6. Spend your time with people who are genuinely enthusiastic. Their positive emotions will “rub off” onto you.

Unless you want to be enthusiastic you will never be enthusiastic. If you are ashamed of the topic, or dislike it you will not be able to develop enthusiasm for it. Genuine enthusiasm only comes from something you believe in or enjoy.

One of the factors that contributed to the late John F. Kennedy’s speaking success was the enthusiasm he displayed when delivering his speech. Sure, he had good speechwriters but without his enthusiasm the speeches would not have been nearly as effective. A person conveying their speech in a monotone voice, boring and steady manner will not be as effective at getting their message across.

An enthusiastic delivery can overcome other shortcomings in your presentation. Where you are not naturally enthusiastic it can be developed provide you choose to be. By being genuinely enthusiastic and combined with preparation and knowledge your public speaking will be more confident and effective.

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