Five Sure Fire Ways to Experience Success

I talk with a lot of entrepreneurs every week, and I have discovered some common themes that make them successful. Combining these with my own experiences, I’ve uncovered five main ways to keep you on track for success.

Follow Your Passion

It is not enough to want your own business. You must find the business that you are passionate about! Your business must be in alignment with your personal goals, values and passion. When I was growing up, I was heavily involved in theatre and dancing. I toyed with the idea of obtaining a degree in musical theatre and moving to New York to pursue a career on Broadway. However, I was cautioned not to do this unless I was wildly passionate about it because the rejection was so incredible and the industry was so competitive. Do these obstacles sound familiar? They are very similar to those experienced by entrepreneurs. However, when you do something that you are truly passionate about, it’s easy to get out of bed and feel excited and energized by your work! In addition, it is much easier to find ways to stand out in a competitive market and to do great work for your clients.

Have a Vision

In business, it is critical to pay attention to the right details. Planning is crucial to success. It’s a well-known axiom that if you fail to plan, you plan to fail, and yet I regularly hear from entrepreneurs who do not plan! Without a plan in place, it is too easy to get distracted by whatever happens to come your way. If the opportunities (seminars, speaking engagements, networking opportunities, article requests, etc) are not in alignment with your vision, they will take you off course, and you may not meet your end goal and your vision will become, well… blurred! Think about this before you say “yes” to the next thing that comes your way. If it is not going to help support your goals for this year, month, or week, your decision should be very easy. Just say no.

Find a Way to Be Held Accountable

Many of us go into business to be able to flex our creative muscle. We like coming up with wonderful ideas, but implementing them is not as fun as the big-picture thinking! Our new idea sounds great, and the potential revenue is exciting, but the tasks we need to do to get there are overwhelming and we can’t seem to make any headway on the project! So we procrastinate and find other things to occupy our time, until we eventually take the wonderful creative idea off our “to do” list because we don’t want to or know how to do the work to get us there. This is a waste of your creative spirit! Successful entrepreneurs find ways to be held accountable, whether it’s through membership in a round table or mastermind group, forming an advisory board, entering a formal partnership or hiring a coach to keep them on track.

Spend Your Time on High-Payoff Tasks

Everyone knows that in order to stay in business, we must continue to bring in revenue. However, many entrepreneurs spend too much of their time doing activities that don’t generate income! So what is an entrepreneur to do? Delegate! By outsourcing all the tasks that don’t include generating money or building relationships, you will be able to use your newly found time to make more money! Your time for high-payoff activities (planning, forecasting, developing your marketing funnel, training, and so forth) will increase and in turn, your productivity will increase. There are many virtual professionals who you can hire to do the work you need to outsource and could include anything from accounting to administration and beyond. Once you do this the first time, be prepared to be addicted to this concept!

Focus

How many projects do you have going on at any one time? Or worse, how many businesses are you running at one time? I recently met a woman who has three businesses, and she was complaining that none of them were doing well. Gee, I wonder why? Having too many projects at one time, particularly if you do not have a way of managing each of them properly, means that you’re likely to become overwhelmed. Pick a project or two and focus on those. You will feel so great to knock something out and will be motivated to continue onto your next task. If you are spread too thin, I can guarantee you that you will sabotage your chances of meeting your goals.

After assessing where you are in these five lessons, you can start to see what you need to focus on. Whether you feel confused, struggle with self-confidence or lack tangible results, I suggest taking action to find out if you’re following your passion and determine your measuring stick for success. If you are easily distracted or overwhelmed, I suggest finding a coach who can help you align your goals, priorities and values to create the life and business you desire. By paying attention to these key areas, you can start to shift to creating a business that fits your lifestyle, not one that dictates it, which is one of my personal measures of success.

Copyright © 2009 Meredith Liepelt

Meredith Liepelt, President of Rich Life Marketing, publishes Smart Marketing, a free bi-weekly ezine featuring marketing tips, insider secrets and thought provoking articles designed to help the busy female entrepreneur become known as an expert in her field, build trust with clients and prospects and generate more income than ever before. Claim your free subscription today at http://www.richlifemarketing.com

Are You Willing to Ask for Help?

1198854_tree_at_sunset“Why didn’t you ask for some help?”
“Oh, I didn’t want to bother anyone…”

I can’t tell you how often I hear this from people. In our quest to be independent, self-sufficient, and successful, we often avoid the very thing we most need to do – asking for help. When you find yourself stuck, struggling, overwhelmed, or afraid, what is your first line of action? Do you ask for the help you need or do you say to yourself:

* I don’t want to bother anyone…

* Everyone is really busy, they couldn’t possibly have time to help…

* If I ask for help it’ll appear that I can’t do everything on my own and I’m not willing to be that vulnerable…

Well, I’m here to tell you to snap out of it! I’m not suggesting you curl up into co-dependent ball and act helpless. You’re smart, intelligent, and capable. It is this very reason why you need to be able to discern when you need to ask for help and then ASK. Speak Up for goodness sakes!

I have been reminded of this recently in some really personal and heart-wrenching ways. I seem to have an extended family that I love dearly that is really reluctant to ask for help. I’ve seen people suffer in physical and emotional pain because they didn’t want to bother anyone. I even attended a funeral of a loved one who might very well be here today if she would have skipped the “I don’t want to bother anyone” and reached out. Whether your need is physical, emotional, or practical, the people in your circle of personal and professional contacts want to help. That’s right, unless you are the kid crying wolf demanding help at every step, the people who care about you really do want to be there for you. Here’s the catch, they can’t be there for you if you don’t ask. Most people are not mind readers.

I admit that I come from the same gene pool of folks who don’t want to ask for help, but I’ve learned that as independent and strong as I am, I can’t do it all alone. I will totally own the fact that I can still be resistant to accepting help at times (you ought to see me when I have the flu!), but I have learned how to be more open and willing to ask for help when I really need it. It doesn’t have to be a monumental request; sometimes it can be something very simple but infinitely meaningful. People succeed and live meaningful lives because of the connection and support of others. Holds true in all areas of life. Period. End of Story.

Here’s my coach’s request to you…

1) Just notice if there is anything you have been struggling with that you could really use help with. It may be a practical piece of your business (like updating your website) or as simple as just needing to connect with another human so you feel like you are not alone in whatever situation you find yourself in.

2) List on a piece of paper at least one thing (big or small) that you could really use help with in the next week.

3) Go through your list of family, friends, trusted contacts who could provide this help.

4) ASK them to help.

It’s not rocket science, but it sure feels that big because of all the stories we tell ourselves about what it means if we need help (things like “I’m not good enough”, “I’ll never make it on my own”, “What will others think?”, “Only the weak need help”, etc.). Then the flood of emotions rushes in and we get paralyzed in place. The more we stay stuck the more overwhelmed, panicked, stressed, fearful, angry, and tense we get. Then we repeat the cycle a few more times until we’re on the brink.

Stop the self-sabotage and super-person act, take a deep breath, and then give yourself permission to do the exercise and ask for help. Here’s the thing, not only will you get the thing you need most, but I am willing to bet that in the giving others will benefit as well. I know whenever I get to help someone out I really cherish the opportunity and receive what I most need as well.


Copyright © 2009 Paula Gregorowicz; Paula Gregorowicz, The Paula G Company, helps women get comfortable in their own skin so they can fully value who they are and what they offer and as a result experience greater levels of personal and professional success. She empowers them to gain the clarity, confidence, and courage to succeed on their own terms and live life by their own design. Learn the “5 Steps to Turn Fear into Freedom” (for free).

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