How to Create Millions of Creative and Really Bad TED Talks?

And then all of a sudden, it reveals itself that happiness can only be achieved by connecting with the world. I would like to share my experience with this. You casee the beauty sink in once you take the time.

Then all of a sudden it becomes easy for the brain to weigh emotion and experimental evidence. You don’t have to like it, but a mirror can stop us from being so unbelievably disrespectful. (Applause.) Thank you very much. It’s just that in the middle of suppression, genius is often born. (Applause.)
Thank you very much. This shows that happiness is to go along where life takes you. And all of a sudden, the world is full of French flying monks. (Laughter.) Thank you very much. You know, you need surprises. How many of you would not agree? I believe that a mirror in the back does not make you a megahero. Fortunately, you don’t have to be one, because happiness does not imply to constantly feel happy.

Ah, and I will also give you something on Lies, damned lies and statistics (about TEDTalks).

It’s just that in the middle of a brilliantly tongue-in-cheek analysis from last week’s featured talks on TED.com, Sebastian Wernicke uses some beautiful, inspiring and fascinating tools and data from statistical analysis on TEDTalks, the same way that you look at the emotions, strategies and choices and that you use and make every day.

And you don’t have to, but you can read more on this at tedPAD.

Do You Want a Beautiful Life?

1209795_closing_up_flowersYour life is more than days and years. It is what you do with your time and how closely your choices match your values. It is how you maximize the possibilities that cross your path.

Life is full of surprises. Sometimes it can be confusing, messy, and discouraging. What seems to be a rock in your path may end up being a stepping stone to something important. You may look for shortcuts to tomorrow and not find any. Even so, it is still possible to find your way to a beautiful life.

“Beautiful” can mean different things to different people. Webster’s dictionary defines it as “having beauty; very pleasing and satisfying to the senses, eye, ear, and mind.” When it comes to applying “beautiful” to your life, begin by assuming that your basic needs for food, water, shelter, and physical and financial security are met.

Next, visualize what your beautiful life looks like. To do this, you need to know where you are going as well as where you have been. Make the picture of your beautiful life in color; it makes it more enticing. Make it large to make it more compelling.

Then, focus on your emotional and mental well-being. Get in touch with your purpose for being here. Your purpose grounds you and keeps you moving forward. If you feel lost, people who love you will find you.


In addition, to make a beautiful life which you deserve:

1. Love yourself. This means enjoying your own company and making peace with who you are at this moment in time.
2. Make time for yourself so that you can listen with your heart for your purpose in life.
3. Think positively and be happy. Remember, mistakes are opportunities to learn.
4. Put effort into things important to you; try. Be willing to stretch yourself and move outside your comfort zone once in a while.
5. Learn to be accepting and flexible when you cannot alter or avoid a situation to decrease your stress level. There is a saying, “When you don’t have what you want, try wanting what you have.”

If you want a challenge and to stretch yourself, add two more ideas to this list that you know would make your life beautiful. This will make the list more uniquely yours. Then, choose one of these ideas. Begin to focus on it until you feel it is a part of who you really are. Continuing to take one idea at a time from your list, you can move forward whenever you feel you are ready.

Having a beautiful life is not about having a perfect life or all the material things you want in your life. It is much deeper than that. It has to do with knowing what is important to you and being able to take action in a positive way. You have control over the choices you make. Your feelings about yourself and your life depend on your choices. Choose wisely.

Copyright © 2009 Maurine Patten


Maurine Patten, Ed.D., CMC, Maximize Your Possibilities http://www.PattenCoaching.com Mailto:mdpcoach@pattencoaching.com More free information, assessment and ezine subscription at http://www.PattenCoaching.com